Appreciation

Sometimes in life, you need someone to pat your back and say, "You did great!". But most of the time, people do not respond that way. Even when you think you have achieved the highest, they simply forgot or just don't bother. Does it really matter? Of course, we should say, no.. but deep in our hearts, we still need all those appreciation to be heard. We are just being human. Allah do not make life that straight forward. We are tested by people around us. Even those who seem kind, they don't really care or they just don't understand... my son would describe this situation as SAD. 

Even when some of us are back in my office, no one in the meeting take any initiative to just announce that yes.. she is back and we welcome her. No... I guess we malaysians are not that expressive. I remember when I was back in UK when I had my viva... passed my other international friends and they celebrated me with hugs and kisses along with the congratulation wishes. 

I believe being appreciative or even expressive is very important to relate with people nicely. It is good to be able to say something about anything around you... what's wrong being a bit more alert of what people wear or do or behave or anything at all. If you are a Head of Dept or a boss, remember to congratulate on good occasions or welcome people in meetings. It makes them feel appreciated and help build the team spirit. Isn't it good to be able to work where you feel belong? A 2 sec thing might give a long impact on those you lead. 

So remember to appreciate those around you and see if you can make a difference!